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10月17日

秋~

看着上次的更新还是在半年前,很久没来过了,任由它杂草蔓延...
最近听说了很多朋友的幸福故事,鱿鱼现在一脸幸福的样子,整天说要给我介绍帅哥
学校的同事们也满脸洋溢着幸福,都在讨论结婚的时间拉~~~~~~
这个似乎离我还比较遥远
我的幸福呢,或许已经被我弄丢了~
以前总觉得自己年轻,其实人都在为年轻承担许多...
望着书桌上的那只大海螺,就这样,静静的~~      
 
 
 
                                                                                   秋天是收获的季节!
                                                                                                            等待~~~~~~~~~
4月5日

清明......

       清明时节雨纷纷,早上难得6点就起来了,于是兴致一来,出门锻炼,哪知刚下楼就被毛毛小雨给挡了回来.
       按照惯例,下午去给外公扫墓,3年了,外公离开我已经整整3年了,可我总会不断的想起他,想起他那不太好的厨艺,想起他坐在沙发上看电视总是睡着的样子,想起他给我讲的革命故事......记得以前小时候一听他讲"想当年......"的时候,我和妹妹总是小嘴一撇,然后直嚷嚷又来了,又来了.小时候外公特别宠我,每次出门总喜欢带着我,大概是我小时候比较听话,说是带着我解闷的.在九江的时候,我和外公每天总是徒步走过九江长江大桥,每次我走累的时候,外公总给我买点小东西吃,然后我精神又来了.第一次去上海也是和外公,在飞机上,我吐的不行,一直哭,我记得还是外公背我下的飞机.
        04年的冬天,特别冷,我的眼泪都要流干了,但我始终相信,外公在天上看着我,守护着我.
4月4日

风一样来,风一样去

     最近的我很迷茫
     每天都在忙,却不知道自己忙了些什么
     朋友都说我是个没主见的人,
     其实我也深有体会
     从小到大,20多年了
     我没有遇见过什么大的挫折
     总是有那么多的亲人朋友给我无微不至的关怀
     让我习惯了被关心
这几天回家,
心里乱乱的,想了很多,
以为自己把什么都想的很清楚,
给自己的计划书也写了满满一页
昨天在和超子的电话中又恍然大悟
很多事情不是我想两天就能想清楚的
真的需要时间,
超子说他是一年
我呢?
成熟不是心变老,而是泪在眼中打转还能微笑.......
    
3月26日

收拾心情

      享受了两天武汉明媚的阳光,南昌依旧阴雨绵绵,不知此刻的上海是否还是海风阵阵呢?
      站在樱花树下,感受着百年名校给我的震撼,读书真好,学校的时光太宝贵了.生在福中不知福,现在对这句话特有感触,4年的大学生活,我总盼望他快点过完,可真要走到尽头的时候,却萌发出许多的不舍,怀念37幢宿舍楼,怀念半夜看球赛时对面发出的尖叫声,怀念食堂的红烧肉,怀念A8大大的桌子,怀念学校9月弥漫的桂花香......
     毕业给我带来了迷茫,社会大学我还是幼稚园学生,一切才刚刚开始.
     朋友真的是一辈子的财富,感谢我的好朋友们给了我这么多宝贵的意见......
10月18日

很久没来了

      很久没来偶得小家了,sorry哦,冷落我家宝宝了~~~~~~
       电视里面看见柏芝很激动得流眼泪,说谢谢大家得祝福,我和霆锋一定会很幸福得在一起得~!是啊,前不久在泰国秘密结婚得他们,会很幸福得在一起的哦~!在他俩狂放不羁的外表下面,一定藏着颗对家庭对爱人的责任感~!
      
9月20日

白色 巨塔

在权力的面前,人变的脆弱
  在金钱的面前,人变的贪婪
  在地位的面前,爱显的多余
  而在生命的面前
  你其实只是浩瀚长河中的一粒沙~!
      

      有一座白色的巨塔,

         人人都想往上爬,

          因为大家相信,

          只有在顶端,

          风景才是最美的,

         可也只有在顶端的人才知道

                                                                    这里其实是无尽的悲凉与寂寞~

        最近看了中视的白色巨塔,看这个片子的初衷是由于小言演得(偶就喜欢看帅哥演得片子哦)。看了以后才发现这部片子突破了台剧一贯打偶像牌的套路,剧中没有一贯的灰姑娘和王子的故事,有的只是对人性的剖析。白色的医袍下,各自包裹着不一样的心情,看似圣洁宁静的白色巨塔里,酝酿着一场无法遏止的权力斗争。善良与邪恶是相对的,没有邪恶又哪来的善良呢?所谓善中有恶,恶中存善也就是这个道理吧~

 

9月12日

天气变凉了

      开学了,本姑娘来更新我的blog了,好久没开了,可是人气还是不怎么滴阿,芊芊的好朋友们,死党们,兄弟姐妹们,加加油啊,路过的话要给本姑娘踩踩哦,让我知道你们大家的存在嘛~!昨天突然想起来,下个星期还有计算机考试,慌乱中找出一套题目,居然问第一台计算机是哪一年产的?什么东东嘛,我只知道它产的那年我还没出生就够了。看来我连一级都过不了拉。
     这几天天气异常的冷,风吹在身上都凉凉的,一点没有初秋的感觉了,好像已经进入深秋,依稀记得去年这个时候的阳光很美妙阿~!
     爸爸有打电话来催我好好看公务员的书,报考公务员了,明天就去买书了,别催了哦~!
      今天看见了锋锋和柏芝,很幸福的样子,他们是经过了很多考验才能走到一起的,祝福他们,要幸福哦~!
      胡乱写了一通,都不知道自己说了点什么,姑且叫做散文吧~,哈哈。
8月29日

今年夏天当羽毛

    今年夏天,收获了一双很清澈的眼睛,很纯真的样子和很善良的心灵~!
    今年夏天当羽毛,因为有天宇~!
    马的童年不应该用不幸或者幸福来评判,他自幼丧母,由爷爷带大.在不幸中有了爷爷这个大幸之人!你说他幸还是不幸?也许,他不像我们这些80年代大部分孩子那样娇惯和对钱的挥霍!他有了比同龄孩子更多的更成熟的想法!所谓的穷人的孩子早当家!没妈的孩子早立事吧!这些我也不愿再提!因为主人公也从未刻意提出来搏取一把同情泪! 
    令我大为不解的是为什么他还会有如此阳光的笑脸(不是什么做秀和演戏所能做到的)!如此的纯净! 如此的单纯啊!我自己都糊涂了!只能说他有颗水晶般的心,有着草原般的胸怀,有着宽容善良的品性吧!
    天宇的长相不是那种令人窒息的帅,也不会跳很好的舞。 
 但他有着自己独特的东西。 
 如夏日的冷饮,清凉的让你爽到心底 ; 
 如咖啡的香气,绕梁三日而不绝; 
 如茶般的浓郁,让你很清醒的沉醉其中。 
 喜欢他的人叫羽毛,其实他自己何尝不像是羽毛。 
 如此纯白,如此轻盈,如此纯粹。 
 一副干净的样子,清澈得没有一点杀伤力。 
 如同沉如水底的水晶,看不到一丝的杂质~!
    把羽毛进行到底~~~~~

fans见面会

      8月26日,气温35度,我却在烈日下等待了3个小时,等待古天乐~!
      中午刚吃过饭,我就邀上成成一起去胜利路了。开始还以为见面会2点就开始呢,谁知道到了才知道要4点半开始,我当时就发晕了,一看时间,还有3个小时,我该怎么度过啊~!于是找了家咖啡店,看着广场那里的人越来越多,在太阳下等的人还不少呢~!坐着等不爽,只有逛街了,把胜利路都逛遍了,可惜一无所获。终于把万涛给等到了,见面会也快开始了~!激动的时刻也来了~!
      古仔是在千呼万唤中驶出来的,他穿的好多哦,一身秋装,还要加件马甲,难道他不知道南昌天气是这么热吗?果然是要风度不要温度了。我勇往直前,一口气挤到了最前面。往后一看,场面真壮观啊,真佩服自己的勇气,从几千人中突围。最后悔的事情是没带数码相机来,只好用手机狂拍了,还好万涛那个手机有200万的相数,还能酬和着看吧~!在 一声声的尖叫声中,时间也过得飞快。见面会一会就结束了,古仔又上了他的宝马了~!可fans们似乎还不愿意离去,还在互相交流自己的作品  呢~!
    万涛最兴奋了,连打了10多个电话去炫耀自己和古仔的拥抱~!我和成成就在一旁狂笑不止~!
    还没写完,下次传古仔照片,吃饭去了~~~~~~拜拜昂~!
7月12日

摄氏度

    不知不觉,我回家已经有1个多星期了,放假前的暑假打算似乎在我到家的那一刻就全部瓦解了,整天都有同学来叫我出去玩,大家都找个借口说这是最后一个暑假了,得好好享受,抓住学生时代的尾巴。我似乎也欣然接受了这个看似冠冕堂皇的借口。和老同学在一起的日子总是开心的,在ktv时可以尽情的抢话筒,争当一回麦霸(虽然我没那个实力),尽情的释放心情~!今天超子又给我电话说周末去漂流,哇,他们怎么也不想想外面的太阳,漂回来还能见人吗?跟着他们疯,祝我好运哦~!!
     一直很不明白,为什么人总在失去的时候才知道后悔?总在离别的时候才懂得珍惜?难道得不到的永远是最好的吗?
      房间气温26摄氏度,外面气温35摄氏度,我的心————?摄氏度。。。。。。
6月5日

杂~~~~~~~

     16周了,还有2周就要考试了,下午背了一下午的日语单词,可吃过饭又发现自己忘记了一部份,为什么人的遗忘系统这么快啊~!这让我突然想到了机器猫的记忆面包,要是我有那种面包多好啊,把考试的所有东西都copy到脑子里去,这样就不用担心忘记了。
     今天写好了2篇论文,也算有点小成就了,然后还看了半天的blog教程,还是没学会链接音乐,不过学会了搞背景图片,也算是不小收获吧~!
     流水账就记到这里了,我好想回家~!
6月1日

新的开始

blog上很久都没有自己DIY的文字了,本姑娘的老毛病又犯了,只图一时的新鲜感,时间一长,新鲜感没了,也就被我遗忘了.在这里,我要对我的blog说声"sorry",你的主人很懒,没有好好的经营你,让你一个月没见阳光雨露了.早上还在睡梦中就被远方的短信吵醒了,儿童节快乐~!我恍然大悟,原来今天是我久违的儿童节啊?就让儿童节做为我blog新的开始,本姑娘以后会好好对你的,不过偶犯懒的时候你也体谅体谅我了~!20岁的儿童节在blog上留下了痕迹,10年后,20年后,或许还能回味,谁规定20岁就没有儿童节
   
    ps:谁能告诉我如何在blog上连接音乐啊,本姑娘搞到火大了~~~~
5月29日

鱼和水的故事

<div style="width:100%;background-color:#ffff00;">鱼和水有故事,那两句对白很经典,几乎谁都知道,但却很少人知道故事的全篇鱼说:“你看不见我眼中的泪,因为我在水中。”水说:“我能感觉到你的泪,因为你在我的心中这两句对白很经典,几乎谁都知道,但却很少人知道故事的全篇。鱼儿从小就是一个顽皮的孩子,她从不   
像别的孩子那样安静。她喜欢在水里蹿来蹿去,先是个50米冲刺,然后来一个急刹车或是一个急转弯。每   
每这时,水儿总是微笑地看着鱼儿…………   
   有时,鱼儿会碰到一些丧气的事,但在这时,温柔的水儿总是静静地倾听着,抚慰着鱼儿。白天,水儿 把鱼儿轻轻抛起,让她跃出水面,看看外面的世界,然后再将她稳稳地接住。到了夜里,水儿就成了最温暖 的摇篮,他总是轻轻地摇晃,哄着鱼儿让她入睡。在夏天的夜晚里,水儿总是将鱼儿拖到水面.  
  鱼儿渐渐长大了,她发现心里有一样东西让她牵挂——那就是水儿。一天,鱼儿终于鼓足了勇气告诉水儿她喜欢他,水 儿沉默了。“你为什么不说话?”鱼儿问。水仍旧沉默着,只是开始轻轻地摇着头。  
  妈妈说鱼儿不能爱水。 这是大自然的规律,就好象斑马只能爱斑马,花豹只能爱花豹;条纹的只能爱条纹,斑点的又只能爱斑点, 而斑点却是永远不能爱条纹的。   
   鱼儿不明白,如果条纹真的爱上了斑点,飞鸟真的爱上鱼儿,鱼儿真的爱上了水,那又该如何呢?  
  鱼儿不明白,她吐着泡泡对水说:“我爱你!”水儿再次沉寂,鱼儿没有再说什么,只是静静地躺在了水的怀抱里……   
  许久,鱼儿的开口打破了沉寂:“你看不见我眼中的泪,因为我在水中。”水说:“我能感觉到你的泪,因 为你在我心中。”鱼儿急了:“那你为什么不爱我?”水却只能说:“我不能爱你我居无定所,时常到处漂流,你和我在一起会很辛苦的。”   
    鱼儿又坚定地说:“我不怕,我要永远和你在一起!”可是,水终究逃不过漂流的命运,他流人了一条大河,鱼儿一直寸步不离地陪着他。他们相拥着饶过暗礁和险涛,流过江湖,跃下瀑布,流入一条小溪中。一路   
上,水儿将鱼儿轻轻抛起,又接住,再抛起,再接住,嬉闹着。水流越流越暖,最后快断流了!   
    “太好了,我们终于可以定居了。”鱼儿欢呼雀跃。“不行,水面太浅,太危险了,乘现在还有退路,你 赶快往回游吧!”水儿紧张地说。“不,不管怎么样,我决不离开你!”鱼儿坚决地说。  
  为了减少水的蒸发量, 白天,鱼儿静静地躺在水的怀里,不作任何运动。到了夜里,星星全落到了水里,鱼儿才开始嬉戏,把星星一颗颗吞进去,又吐出来,再吞进去,再吐出来,乐此不疲。  
  六月,火红的太阳照射着水面,尽管他们做了各种 努力,可水儿还是在一点一点的蒸发。鱼儿的脊背渐渐地露出了水面,水儿努力地激起了波澜,湿润着她的脊背,不让太阳将她灼伤。可是这样,更加加速了水的蒸发。终于,最后的一滴水也离开了鱼儿。鱼儿躺在了龟裂的土地上,奄奄一息。鱼儿的心脏在完成了最后一次跳动时,一滴眼泪从脸颊滑落。  
  突然,天空划过一道闪电,在几声响雷之后,大雨倾盆而下,鱼儿又回到了水的怀抱,水儿呼唤着鱼儿,可是鱼儿再也没有醒来,水带着悲伤的心情载着鱼儿像风一样地奔驰,撕裂心肺的哭声,任谁都可以到…………   

  水儿载着鱼儿,奋力奔跑,流到了一棵干枯的小树旁,水儿侵入了泥土里,把鱼儿的身体埋进了泥土,水儿对着鱼儿已腐烂的尸体轻轻地说:“我们不用到处奔流了,我找到了你的住所,从今以后,你中有我,我中有你……”   
    不知道过了多少年,树顶上长出了嫩绿色的新芽,在上面有一滴水珠,阳光下闪闪发亮,那是鱼儿的眼泪   
…………   

  鱼说:“你看不见我眼中的泪,因为我在水中。”   
  水说:“我能感觉到你的泪,因为你在我的心中。”   

  鱼对水说:我一直在哭泣,可是你永远都不知道,因为我在水里。   
  水说:我知道因为你一直在我的心里。   

  我不是鱼,你也不是水,你能看见我寂寞的眼泪吗?   
  也许,因为只是寂寞的情人泪。   

  鱼对水说:我永远不会离开你,因为离开你,我无法生存。   
  水说:我知道,可是如果你的心不在呢?   
    
   我不是鱼,你也不是,我不离开你是因为我爱你,   
   可是,你的心里有我吗?   

   鱼对水说:我很寂寞,因为我只能待在水里。   
   水说:我知道,因为我的心里装着你上午寂寞。   
我不是鱼,你也不是水,我寂寞是因为我思念你,   
可是,远方的你能感受到吗?   
    
   水对鱼说:如果没有鱼,那水里会剩下什么?   
   鱼说:如果没有你,那又怎么会有我?   

   我不是鱼,你也不是水,没有你的爱,我依然会好好的活,   
   可是,好好的活并不代表我可以把你忘记。   

   鱼对水说:一辈子不能出去看看外面的世界,是我最大的遗憾。   
   水说:一辈子不能打消你的这个念头,是我最大的失败。   
我不是鱼,你也不是水,现在的我只想要一个一辈子的承诺,   
可是,你负担得起吗?   

   鱼对水说;在你的一生中,我是第几条鱼?   
   水说:你不是在水中的第一条鱼,可却是我心中的第一条。   
我不是鱼,你也不的水,我们都不是彼此生命中的第一个,   
可是,知道吗?你是第一个我想要嫁的人。   

    鱼对水说:你相信一见钟情吗?   
    水说:当我意识到你是鱼的那一刻,就知道你会游到我的心里。   
我不是鱼,你也不是水,我以为我对你的感情不会长久,因为那是一见钟情。   
可是,我错了,感情如酒,越封越香,越长久。   

    鱼对水说:为什么每次都是我问你答?   
    水说:因为我喜欢在回答中让你了解我的心。   
     
    我不是鱼,你也不是水,为什么你总是让我等待?   
    难道,你不知道,等待==失去信心==放弃?   

    如果我是鱼,而你是水,那该有多好!   
    水永远都知道鱼的想法,因为鱼在水的心里。   

    但是我不是鱼,你也不是水,   
    你永远都不知道我的爱,因为我也许根本不在你的心里!   


    如果我是鱼,而你是水,   
    我可以游入你的心里吗?
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5月5日

今天登上华山了~

      在西安的每一天都很累,也都很充实,但最累的要算是今天了,我登上了中国最险的山,五岳之中的华山~!早上我六点就被闹钟给吵醒了,登山得乘早嘛。大家也许觉得六点不算太早,但我想说的是,我昨晚可是2点半才睡觉的啊~!这又得说到小超了,本来昨天大家说天气下雨,别玩太累了,就在西安城墙转了转,可后来回来了以后,小超又叫了他几个好朋友一起吃饭,吃好饭,大家说无聊,居然跑到holiday去唱歌去了,我这种五音不全的声音,最不喜欢去k歌了,可小超和晶硬是把我拉去了,拗不过他们,只好去了。反正后来成了小超的个人演唱会,不过小超有个同学唱歌声音真的非常棒哦,特别是他唱的童话。就这样,居然玩到了凌晨2点,还好我神速,30分钟就搞定上床睡觉了。
       早上一上去华山的巴士,我就倒下睡着了,2小时真是太快了,等我睁眼的时候,我已经在华山脚下了。我们决定,爬上华山,然后坐缆车下山。事实证明这太挑战我的体力极限了,我们足足用了5个小时才爬上华山北峰,据说这只是华山的一半哦。大家肯定想象不到我爬山时的狼狈样子,双脚好象都不是自己的了,连抬起来的力气都没有了,后来只能手脚并用,用最原始的爬行法噌上了华山。山脚的时候大家本来都计划好说要爬好北峰,再爬南峰,然后西峰的,可刚到半路,小超首先就提出我们只爬北峰好了,他说其他几个峰风景肯定都一样的。呵呵,这大概是对自己的心理安慰吧~!我当然是双手赞成的拉,其实体力最差的就是我了。还好华山论剑的地方就在北峰,总算不虚此行~!后来就坐索道下山了,居然在坐索道的时候我耳鸣的厉害,以至于下了山我还是什么也听不见,差点把我吓死~!耳鸣是怎么好的我也不记得了,反正一上回西安的车我又睡着了~!
       回来后,发现腿居然不酸了,还挺精神的,看来是达到体力极限了,不知道累了。看我还有空来msn上冒泡呢~!对了,还有很多西安游的照片哦~!记得看哦~!
 
4月26日

再看Forrest Gump

        “Life is like a chocholate,you never know what it will be”。
       第一次看《阿甘正传》,我为片头和片尾的那片羽毛而困惑,导演以这片羽毛作为开幕式和闭幕式,究竟是在表现什么意思呢?想来想去,觉得羽毛像是阿甘的思绪,就没再深究下去了。今天看完之后,我强烈地感觉到一片飘到地上的羽毛就像一个降临到人世的生命,这片羽毛在广袤的天空中飞行,无论它“是命中注定,还是随风飘零没有定数”,你无从知道它会在何处落地。人生也是一样,就像阿甘的妈妈一开始并不知道自己会成为阿甘的妈妈,就像阿甘一开始并不知道上帝给自己的智商只有75,就像丹上尉一开始并不知道自己要忍受失去双腿的痛苦一样。
      羽毛随风飞起,飘落。
      生命是个未知数,希望是永远存在~!
      一千个读者心目中就有一千个哈母来特,没看一遍“Forrest Gump",都会有不同的感动~!
4月24日

真的别太轻易相信人了~!

别太轻易相信人了
世界上骗子实在太多了
你根本不知道谁是真谁是假
或许人家不是有心要骗你
或许大家都是受害者
别骗的代价很沉重
独自承受。。。。。。
4月13日

亲爱的外公,您在天堂还好吗?

     今天突然想起了外公,时间真是快啊,转眼间,外公离开我已经有1年多了。我清楚的记得去年的1月24日,早上6点,我接到电话后,连衣服都来不及穿就赶去外公家,当时我埋着头,在寒风中跑啊跑啊,只有一个念头在我的脑中,我想见外公最后一面。于是我忘却了寒冷,忘却了寒风,后来才发现满脸的眼泪都快结成冰了。纵究是晚了一步,我到的时候,耳朵只充磁着狼毫般的哭声。我明白了,晚了,我来晚了。整整3天,我哭尽了所有的泪,往事一点一滴浮现在我的脑中。
     在我的记忆里,外公脾气很好,对我也最好。小时候,我每天总是呆在外公家,老房子门前的院子留下了太多太多童年的回忆。每当吃饭的时候,外公总是在门口呼唤我:“芊芊,别疯了,吃饭了~!”我却总在他叫了3遍以后才不情愿的回家吃饭。在吃饭过程中还要抱怨菜烧得太难吃。现在想想,当时真是太不懂事了,现在觉得那是世间上最美的美食,可我却不能品尝了。外公总是宠着我,每天吃完饭后,总是要问,芊芊,明天想吃什么呢?
记得初中的时候每天放学回家,我总和外公一起在电视机旁看5点钟的天天饮食 ,外公很好学,每天都在里面学一个新样式,变着法儿让家里人开心。我最开心的时候是一起和外公做甜点——琥珀花生。记得那道菜得到了全家人的赞赏,我看见外公笑得很甜!
      外公的生活很 有规律,早晨5点半起床,锻炼一小时,吃早饭,然后去老年活动中心打麻将,11点回家作饭。最开心的就是外公麻将赚了钱的时候了,他总不忘给我和表妹带喜欢的巧克力和玉米。在生病之前,外公坚持打了3年的麻将,最后统计,支出和收入居然平衡了,这正好印证了外公的性格,一丝不苟,公正不阿。
      记得高考之前,我对外公说,我一定好好考试,考好大学,工作赚了钱一定带外公玩遍中国。可如今,我的诺言不能实现了,对外婆更好,一定是给外公最大的安慰了。高考成绩出来的时候,外公当时在上海看病,不在我的身边,可妈妈递给我一个厚厚的信封,是外公给我的,上面写着他那秀气的字——给芊芊的大学礼物,好好学习。我一看,是一万元钱,那是外公早在我初中的时候就定的规矩,凡是考上了大学的子孙,他都会奖励一万元的。我是作为家里的女孩子第一个拿到这笔钱的,眼泪花花地留下来了,外公在病床上还不忘我。于是我每天都祈祷,希望外公的病快好,我们又可以一起做琥珀花生了。
      外公给我影响最深的是他的廉洁,做了10多年的银行行长,他总是和我们说,他的每一分钱都是辛辛苦苦赚的,一分一厘攒的。现在,每当我看见社会上贪污腐败,我总想起外公,要是他还在的话,大家肯定会被他廉洁之风折服的。
      现在每次回家,我总不忘去外公的墓碑前拜祭他,亲爱的外公,您在天堂好吗?
4月6日

12个人生经典感悟~!

1.父子二人经过五星级饭店门口,看到一辆十分豪华的进口轿车。儿子不屑地对他的父亲说:「坐这种车的人,肚子里一定没有学问!」父亲则轻描淡写地回答:「说这种话的人,口袋里一定没有钱!」

(注:你对事情的看法,是不是也反映出你内心真正的态度?)

2、晚饭后,母亲和女儿一块儿洗碗盘,父亲和儿子在客厅看电视。突然,厨房里传来打破盘子的响声,然后一片沉寂。是儿子望着他父亲,说道:「一定是妈妈打破的。」「你怎么知道?」「她没有骂人。」

(注:我们习惯以不同的标准来看人看己,以致往往是责人以严,待己以宽。)

3、有两个台湾观光团到日本伊豆半岛旅游,路况很坏,到处都是坑洞。其中一位导游连声抱歉,说路面简直像麻子一样。说而另一个导游却诗意盎然地对游客说:诸位先生女士,我们现在走的这条道路,正是赫赫有名的伊豆迷人酒窝大道。」

(注:虽是同样的情况,然而不同的意念,就会产生不同的态度。思想是何等奇妙的事,如何去想,决定权在你。)

4、同样是小学三年级的学生,在作文中说他们将来的志愿是当小丑。中国的老师斥之为:「胸无大志,孺子不可教也!」带外国的老师则会说:「愿你把欢笑带给全世界!」

(注:身为长辈的我们,不但容易要求多于鼓励,更狭窄的界定了成功的定义。)

5、在故宫博物院中,有一个太太不耐烦地对她先生说:「我说你为甚么走得这么慢。原来你老是停下来看这些东西。」

(注:有人只知道在人生的道路上狂奔,结果失去了观看两旁美丽花朵的机会。)

6、妻子正在厨房炒菜。丈夫在她旁边一直唠叨不停:慢些。小心!火太大了。赶快把鱼翻过来。快铲起来,油放太多了!把豆腐整平一下!赴□」妻子脱口而出,「我懂得怎样炒菜。」「你当然懂,太太,」丈夫平静地答道:「我只是要让你知道,我在开车时,你在旁边喋喋不休,我的感觉如何。」

(注:学会体谅他人并不困难,只要你愿意认真地站在对方的角度和立场看问题。)

7.一辆载满乘客的公共汽车沿着下坡路快速前进着,有一个人后面紧紧地追赶着这辆车子。一个乘客从车窗中伸出头来对追车子的人说:“老兄!算啦,你追不上的!”“我必须追上它,”这人气喘吁吁地说:“我是这辆车的司机!”

(注:有些人必须非常认真努力,因为不这样的话,后果就十分悲惨了!然而也正因为必须全力以赴,潜在的本能和不为人知的特质终将充份展现出来。)

8.甲:「新搬来的邻居好可恶,昨天晚上三更半夜、夜深人静之时然跑来猛按我家的门铃。」

乙:「的确可恶!你有没有马上报警?」

甲:「没有。我当他们是疯子,继续吹我的小喇叭。」

(事出必有因,如果能先看到自己的不是,答案就会不一样在你面对冲突和争执时,先想一想是否心中有亏,或许很快就能释怀了)

9.某日,张三在山间小路开车,正当他悠哉地欣赏美丽风景时,突然迎面开来一辆货车,而且满囗黑牙的司机还摇下窗户对他大骂一声:“猪!”

张三越想越纳闷,也越想越气,于是他也摇下车窗回头大骂:“你才是猪!”

才刚骂完,他便迎头撞上一群过马路的猪。

(不要错误的诠释别人的好意,那只会让自己吃亏,并且使别人受辱。在不明所以之前,先学会按捺情绪,耐心观察,以免事后生发悔意。)

10、小男孩问爸爸:“是不是做父亲的总比做儿子的知道得多?”

爸爸回答:“当然啦!”

小男孩问:“电灯是谁发明的?”

爸爸:“是爱迪生。”

小男孩又问:“那爱迪生的爸爸怎么没有发明电灯?”

(很奇怪,喜欢倚老卖老的人,特别容易栽跟斗。权威往往只是一个经不起考验的空壳子,尤其在现今这个多元开放的时代。)

11.小明洗澡时不小心吞下一小块肥皂,他的妈妈慌慌张张地打电话向家庭医生求助。医生说:“我现在还有几个病人在,可能要半小时后才能赶过去。”

小明妈妈说:“在你来之前,我该做甚么?”

医生说:“给小明喝一杯白开水,然后用力跳一跳,你就可以让小明用嘴巴吹泡泡消磨时间了。”

(take it easy,放轻松放轻松些,生活何必太紧张?事情既然已经发生了,何不坦然自在的面对。担心不如宽心,穷紧张不如穷开心。)

12、一把坚实的大锁挂在大门上,一根铁杆费了九牛二虎之力,还是无法将它撬开。钥匙来了,他瘦小的身子钻进锁孔,只轻轻一转,大锁就“啪”地一声打开了。

铁杆奇怪地问:“为什么我费了那么大力气也打不开,而你却轻而易举地就把它打开了呢?”

钥匙说:“因为我最了解他的心。”

(每个人的心,都像上了锁的大门,任你再粗的铁棒也撬不开。唯有关怀,才能把自己变成一只细腻的钥匙,进入别人的心中,了解别人。) 

      昨晚是和一个朋友一起去自修的,两个人坐在大桌子前,我感觉到了一种很久违的感觉。是啊,我太久没和别人一起出来自修了!
      是不想打扰别人,是太累,还是我已经习惯了孤独,享受着寂寞?
     昨晚虽然在教室坐了3小时,可都没专心看书,时间都用去聊天了,很开心,大家聊了很多,从过去到将来,从回忆到理想,最后一看时间,都九点多了,得回寝室了,要不阿姨又要把我关在外面了。记得去年有一次回去晚了,被阿姨关了,我还是从宿舍的窗口爬进去的,有种作贼的感觉,现在想起来还有点心寒的。。。。。。
      今晚还是决定一个人去看书了,我害怕两个人了。。。
    
3月28日

The lady,or the tiger?

In the very olden time there lived a semi-barbaric king, whose ideas, though somewhat polished and sharpened by the progressiveness of distant Latin neighbors, were still large, florid, and untrammeled, as became the half of him which was barbaric. He was a man of exuberant fancy, and, withal, of an authority so irresistible that, at his will, he turned his varied fancies into facts. He was greatly given to self-communing, and, when he and himself agreed upon anything, the thing was done. When every member of his domestic and political systems moved smoothly in its appointed course, his nature was bland and genial; but, whenever there was a little hitch, and some of his orbs got out of their orbits, he was blander and more genial still, for nothing pleased him so much as to make the crooked straight and crush down uneven places.
     Among the borrowed notions by which his barbarism had become semified was that of the public arena, in which, by exhibitions of manly and beastly valor, the minds of his subjects were refined and cultured.
     But even here the exuberant and barbaric fancy asserted itself. The arena of the king was built, not to give the people an opportunity of hearing the rhapsodies of dying gladiators, nor to enable them to view the inevitable conclusion of a conflict between religious opinions and hungry jaws, but for purposes far better adapted to widen and develop the mental energies of the people. This vast amphitheater, with its encircling galleries, its mysterious vaults, and its unseen passages, was an agent of poetic justice, in which crime was punished, or virtue rewarded, by the decrees of an impartial and incorruptible chance.
     When a subject was accused of a crime of sufficient importance to interest the king, public notice was given that on an appointed day the fate of the accused person would be decided in the king's arena, a structure which well deserved its name, for, although its form and plan were borrowed from afar, its purpose emanated solely from the brain of this man, who, every barleycorn a king, knew no tradition to which he owed more allegiance than pleased his fancy, and who ingrafted on every adopted form of human thought and action the rich growth of his barbaric idealism.
     When all the people had assembled in the galleries, and the king, surrounded by his court, sat high up on his throne of royal state on one side of the arena, he gave a signal, a door beneath him opened, and the accused subject stepped out into the amphitheater. Directly opposite him, on the other side of the enclosed space, were two doors, exactly alike and side by side. It was the duty and the privilege of the person on trial to walk directly to these doors and open one of them. He could open either door he pleased; he was subject to no guidance or influence but that of the aforementioned impartial and incorruptible chance. If he opened the one, there came out of it a hungry tiger, the fiercest and most cruel that could be procured, which immediately sprang upon him and tore him to pieces as a punishment for his guilt. The moment that the case of the criminal was thus decided, doleful iron bells were clanged, great wails went up from the hired mourners posted on the outer rim of the arena, and the vast audience, with bowed heads and downcast hearts, wended slowly their homeward way, mourning greatly that one so young and fair, or so old and respected, should have merited so dire a fate.

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     But, if the accused person opened the other door, there came forth from it a lady, the most suitable to his years and station that his majesty could select among his fair subjects, and to this lady he was immediately married, as a reward of his innocence. It mattered not that he might already possess a wife and family, or that his affections might be engaged upon an object of his own selection; the king allowed no such subordinate arrangements to interfere with his great scheme of retribution and reward. The exercises, as in the other instance, took place immediately, and in the arena. Another door opened beneath the king, and a priest, followed by a band of choristers, and dancing maidens blowing joyous airs on golden horns and treading an epithalamic measure, advanced to where the pair stood, side by side, and the wedding was promptly and cheerily solemnized. Then the gay brass bells rang forth their merry peals, the people shouted glad hurrahs, and the innocent man, preceded by children strewing flowers on his path, led his bride to his home.
     This was the king's semi-barbaric method of administering justice. Its perfect fairness is obvious. The criminal could not know out of which door would come the lady; he opened either he pleased, without having the slightest idea whether, in the next instant, he was to be devoured or married. On some occasions the tiger came out of one door, and on some out of the other. The decisions of this tribunal were not only fair, they were positively determinate: the accused person was instantly punished if he found himself guilty, and, if innocent, he was rewarded on the spot, whether he liked it or not. There was no escape from the judgments of the king's arena.
     The institution was a very popular one. When the people gathered together on one of the great trial days, they never knew whether they were to witness a bloody slaughter or a hilarious wedding. This element of uncertainty lent an interest to the occasion which it could not otherwise have attained. Thus, the masses were entertained and pleased, and the thinking part of the community could bring no charge of unfairness against this plan, for did not the accused person have the whole matter in his own hands?

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     This semi-barbaric king had a daughter as blooming as his most florid fancies, and with a soul as fervent and imperious as his own. As is usual in such cases, she was the apple of his eye, and was loved by him above all humanity. Among his courtiers was a young man of that fineness of blood and lowness of station common to the conventional heroes of romance who love royal maidens. This royal maiden was well satisfied with her lover, for he was handsome and brave to a degree unsurpassed in all this kingdom, and she loved him with an ardor that had enough of barbarism in it to make it exceedingly warm and strong. This love affair moved on happily for many months, until one day the king happened to discover its existence. He did not hesitate nor waver in regard to his duty in the premises. The youth was immediately cast into prison, and a day was appointed for his trial in the king's arena. This, of course, was an especially important occasion, and his majesty, as well as all the people, was greatly interested in the workings and development of this trial. Never before had such a case occurred; never before had a subject dared to love the daughter of the king. In after years such things became commonplace enough, but then they were in no slight degree novel and startling.
     The tiger-cages of the kingdom were searched for the most savage and relentless beasts, from which the fiercest monster might be selected for the arena; and the ranks of maiden youth and beauty throughout the land were carefully surveyed by competent judges in order that the young man might have a fitting bride in case fate did not determine for him a different destiny. Of course, everybody knew that the deed with which the accused was charged had been done. He had loved the princess, and neither he, she, nor any one else, thought of denying the fact; but the king would not think of allowing any fact of this kind to interfere with the workings of the tribunal, in which he took such great delight and satisfaction. No matter how the affair turned out, the youth would be disposed of, and the king would take an aesthetic pleasure in watching the course of events, which would determine whether or not the young man had done wrong in allowing himself to love the princess.

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     The appointed day arrived. From far and near the people gathered, and thronged the great galleries of the arena, and crowds, unable to gain admittance, massed themselves against its outside walls. The king and his court were in their places, opposite the twin doors, those fateful portals, so terrible in their similarity.
     All was ready. The signal was given. A door beneath the royal party opened, and the lover of the princess walked into the arena. Tall, beautiful, fair, his appearance was greeted with a low hum of admiration and anxiety. Half the audience had not known so grand a youth had lived among them. No wonder the princess loved him! What a terrible thing for him to be there!
     As the youth advanced into the arena he turned, as the custom was, to bow to the king, but he did not think at all of that royal personage. His eyes were fixed upon the princess, who sat to the right of her father. Had it not been for the moiety of barbarism in her nature it is probable that lady would not have been there, but her intense and fervid soul would not allow her to be absent on an occasion in which she was so terribly interested. From the moment that the decree had gone forth that her lover should decide his fate in the king's arena, she had thought of nothing, night or day, but this great event and the various subjects connected with it. Possessed of more power, influence, and force of character than any one who had ever before been interested in such a case, she had done what no other person had done - she had possessed herself of the secret of the doors. She knew in which of the two rooms, that lay behind those doors, stood the cage of the tiger, with its open front, and in which waited the lady. Through these thick doors, heavily curtained with skins on the inside, it was impossible that any noise or suggestion should come from within to the person who should approach to raise the latch of one of them. But gold, and the power of a woman's will, had brought the secret to the princess.
     And not only did she know in which room stood the lady ready to emerge, all blushing and radiant, should her door be opened, but she knew who the lady was. It was one of the fairest and loveliest of the damsels of the court who had been selected as the reward of the accused youth, should he be proved innocent of the crime of aspiring to one so far above him; and the princess hated her. Often had she seen, or imagined that she had seen, this fair creature throwing glances of admiration upon the person of her lover, and sometimes she thought these glances were perceived, and even returned. Now and then she had seen them talking together; it was but for a moment or two, but much can be said in a brief space; it may have been on most unimportant topics, but how could she know that? The girl was lovely, but she had dared to raise her eyes to the loved one of the princess; and, with all the intensity of the savage blood transmitted to her through long lines of wholly barbaric ancestors, she hated the woman who blushed and trembled behind that silent door.

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     When her lover turned and looked at her, and his eye met hers as she sat there, paler and whiter than any one in the vast ocean of anxious faces about her, he saw, by that power of quick perception which is given to those whose souls are one, that she knew behind which door crouched the tiger, and behind which stood the lady. He had expected her to know it. He understood her nature, and his soul was assured that she would never rest until she had made plain to herself this thing, hidden to all other lookers-on, even to the king. The only hope for the youth in which there was any element of certainty was based upon the success of the princess in discovering this mystery; and the moment he looked upon her, he saw she had succeeded, as in his soul he knew she would succeed.
     Then it was that his quick and anxious glance asked the question: "Which?" It was as plain to her as if he shouted it from where he stood. There was not an instant to be lost. The question was asked in a flash; it must be answered in another.
     Her right arm lay on the cushioned parapet before her. She raised her hand, and made a slight, quick movement toward the right. No one but her lover saw her. Every eye but his was fixed on the man in the arena.
     He turned, and with a firm and rapid step he walked across the empty space. Every heart stopped beating, every breath was held, every eye was fixed immovably upon that man. Without the slightest hesitation, he went to the door on the right, and opened it.
     Now, the point of the story is this: Did the tiger come out of that door, or did the lady ?
     The more we reflect upon this question, the harder it is to answer. It involves a study of the human heart which leads us through devious mazes of passion, out of which it is difficult to find our way. Think of it, fair reader, not as if the decision of the question depended upon yourself, but upon that hot-blooded, semi-barbaric princess, her soul at a white heat beneath the combined fires of despair and jealousy. She had lost him, but who should have him?

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     How often, in her waking hours and in her dreams, had she started in wild horror, and covered her face with her hands as she thought of her lover opening the door on the other side of which waited the cruel fangs of the tiger!
     But how much oftener had she seen him at the other door! How in her grievous reveries had she gnashed her teeth, and torn her hair, when she saw his start of rapturous delight as he opened the door of the lady! How her soul had burned in agony when she had seen him rush to meet that woman, with her flushing cheek and sparkling eye of triumph; when she had seen him lead her forth, his whole frame kindled with the joy of recovered life; when she had heard the glad shouts from the multitude, and the wild ringing of the happy bells; when she had seen the priest, with his joyous followers, advance to the couple, and make them man and wife before her very eyes; and when she had seen them walk away together upon their path of flowers, followed by the tremendous shouts of the hilarious multitude, in which her one despairing shriek was lost and drowned!
     Would it not be better for him to die at once, and go to wait for her in the blessed regions of semi-barbaric futurity?
     And yet, that awful tiger, those shrieks, that blood!
     Her decision had been indicated in an instant, but it had been made after days and nights of anguished deliberation. She had known she would be asked, she had decided what she would answer, and, without the slightest hesitation, she had moved her hand to the right.
     The question of her decision is one not to be lightly considered, and it is not for me to presume to set myself up as the one person able to answer it. And so I leave it with all of you: Which came out of the opened door - the lady, or the tiger?

大意说很久很久以前,有個未開化的國家,有個圓形的競技場,國王審判犯人的方式就是在競技場內一扇門關老虎,一扇門關美女,一切交給老天爺決定,國王相信如果犯人無罪,他應該會幸運選到美女,選到美女的人可以帶美女遠走高飛過幸福的日子;選到老虎的人就會被老虎咬死。

國王有個美麗的女兒,偏偏愛上一個平民青年,國家規定王室跟平民相戀是有罪的,所以國王發現後憤怒不已,把這名平民抓到競技場。同樣的,一扇門內關了老虎,一扇門內關了一位美女,這樣無論他選擇哪個門都不可能再與公主在一起,這樣國王就可以放心了。

全國的人們湧入競技場觀看,國王在場,公主也在場,公主事前就運用關係,已經知道哪一扇門後面是老虎,哪一扇門是美女。她蒼白著臉在看台上,青年望了她一眼,他知道公主一定知道兩扇門的秘密,他渴望公主給他一個方向,給他活路。公主在心裡掙扎萬分,她認識門後的美女,那是宮中最美麗的女僕,她無法忘懷相愛的點滴,無法接受他與美女遠走高飛,重新生活,卻也不願看到心愛的人死亡。

所以她想了很久,終於微指了右邊的門,青年於是慢慢走向了右邊那扇門,所有人都屏息以待門打開的結果 ,公主此時緩緩的走出競技場...

故事結束了,如果你是公主,妳會選哪扇門給他?